This week I want us to take a dive into accepting negative emotions. It’s ok not to be ok and still want to be well.
Let’s take a moment to think about living a happy, healthy life and what we imagine this to look like … smoothies and sunshine, yoga and smiles, a calm mind and a perfectly balanced ‘to do list’.
But the truth
is, a happy, healthy life doesn’t mean you feel good all the time, it simply means that you’re safe to allow yourself to feel and accept whatever those feelings are. So when I start to talk about breath, movement, balance and being kind to your body, I want you to include those negative emotions when you are thinking about your whole wellbeing.
Firstly, it’s important to know that we can’t continue to breathe through something and continue pretending… But I’m sure, like me,
you have done it. Put on a smile and powered through, rather than saying this is hard, I feel anxious/sad/fed up, but that’s ok. I would go as far as to say that it’s more than ok: it’s part of the whole human experience.
The Whole Self has ALL the feeling — it isn’t about perfect bodies or perfect moods, it’s about learning to listen to yourself, mind and body, with curiosity, not criticism:
- you can be committed to wellness and still have off
days
- you can love movement and still need rest
- you can want to feel lighter and still honour the weight you’re carrying.
It’s not either/or, it’s both/and. It’s messy, real and beautiful.
So what if, instead of fixing, pushing down, or brushing past a tough emotion, we just sat with it for a moment?
- pause, put your hand on your heart or belly
- take a breath and name what you are feeling — without any judgement
- and ask
yourself what do I need right now?
The answer could be a walk, a cry, a chat, a stretch, or a nap — but register that we are allowed to need something.
It’s really important to recognise and accept that wellness isn’t about having it all figured out. It’s about building the tools, the awareness, and the support to navigate the ups and downs.
We are in this together at JTP — it could be a shared mindful breath, a shared movement, a
conversation.
So this week, ask yourself — how are you really feeling? What will help you sit with the tougher days? Remember, you don’t have to feel ‘fine’ all the time in order to be brilliant.
Have a fabulous week, accepting all emotions. And keep looking, moving and feeling well.
With love
Jane xx