Your Whole Self — The Gift of Losing Track of Time
Have you ever been so absorbed in something that you look up and think how is it that late already? You put the kettle on over an hour ago and it’s gone cold! You’ve not looked at your phone once! And at least for a while, your worries haven’t filled
your headspace — blissful!
We aren’t normally encouraged to lose track of time though, are we? We tend to live in a ‘clock-watching’ world, and I am very guilty of this myself. But when we lose track of time, it’s actually a sign that we are fully present with what we are doing.
When we give ourselves over to an activity, fully committing, the mind takes a break from its usual loop of ‘to do lists’ and ‘what ifs?’ The activity will be different for everyone,
it could be to do with moving the body, walking, gardening, chatting with a friend, creating a piece of art, playing a musical instrument, or even just pottering, maybe decluttering or sorting your wardrobe. The main thing is the total commitment to it.
In these moments, stress softens, the nervous system settles. Often we can feel our breathing deepen without even trying. It’s not that worries get solved, or forgotten about totally — they just loosen their grip in our
headspace, and that space really matters. If we can find it, it allows the body and mind to rest from the constant vigilance, and being on high alert.
There is something deeply nourishing about letting ourselves become completely absorbed rather than fighting it. The joy of this sneaks in quietly while we are busy doing something we love, and these moments build our emotional resilience. They lift the mood, and leave us feeling more like ourselves when we do have to return to
the clock.
It doesn’t even have to be hours, although it can be. Sometimes allowing ourselves to commit to just ten minutes of full attention and focus can be enough. It’s not about doing more, it’s about doing one thing wholeheartedly.
So if you find yourself losing track of time this week, don’t see it as wasted time, but time well spent, giving you a pause from the noise of everyday life, and a gentle reminder that being present is one of the
most restorative states we have. Think about what activities allow you to lose track of time and give yourself over to them, and do more of them.
Have a good week everyone — keep looking, moving, and feeling good.
With love and support,
Jane xxx