Step out of your comfort zone …
To be honest, I get a bit fed up when I hear this.
Celebrities asked why they are doing SAS Who Dares Wins? Because I wanted to do something that pushes me out of my comfort zone.
Or on Strictly Come Dancing (which I love of course), celebrities will often
talk about the outfits, the razzle-dazzle, the spray tan, which for many of them is… stepping out of their comfort zone.
However, I want to sing the praises of the familiar.
There is something deeply comforting about the familiar — the same walk you’ve done a hundred times, the same cafe to meet up for a coffee and catch up, the same pair of boots. Even in class sometimes when you are being taught an exercise or movement that your
body recognises straight away, it provides familiarity and when something is familiar, the nervous system relaxes, the mind lets go of gripping and holding, and it gives a sense of safety.
Sometimes it can feel that the world is constantly nudging us to try something new, improve, upgrade or change and suggest that familiarity is almost boring. However, familiarity is often where contentment lives. It allows us to settle rather than brace, and from that place we breathe
more freely, feel more grounded, and allow ourselves to just be. And when we visit the familiar — the same restaurant, the same holiday resort, the same pub — it can feel like we are coming home.
All this talk of familiarity should not replace exploration of new things, or curiosity to discover what is possible, I simply want to say that growth doesn’t always come from novelty. Sometimes it comes from repetition, consistency, and keeping the basics in your life. We will
still notice something new when we return to the familiar because every time we go there, we will have changed in some way.
In class you will often hear the teachers talking about the fact that every time we show up we will be in a different place physically and emotionally, so we aim to make our classes feel supportive, familiar movement with familiar faces. A shared space where we move together week after week, day after day. This gives a sense of consistency and
community which allows the body to relax, the mind to soften, and the whole self to feel held, which is just as important as the exercise itself. The comfort of familiarity.
So this week, you might gently lean into the familiar. The cafe you know. The walk you trust. The small habits that quietly support you.
Contentment doesn’t always shout — sometimes it whispers, “You’re safe here.”
Have a great week everyone. Keep
looking, moving, and feeling good.
With love and support,
Jane xxx