Absorbing emotions from others, do you do this?
I know I do, I experienced this last week when one of the JTP family brought her new baby in to see me and the group.
Her and her partner’s joy was oozing out of them — and joy is a very
infectious emotion so all of us in the group couldn’t help but absorb a little of their joy and share it.
On bad days if you meet with someone, or speak to someone who is obviously happy and you can see the joy they are experiencing it is very easy to absorb some of that and it can help to really lift your own emotions. In the same way when someone is experiencing sadness, when you meet them or see them you can also absorb that emotion and feel sad.
Often when people are feeling sad, they try to cover it up, because they realise the effect it can have on others, they try to be brave, and strong. But when this happens and that sadness is being suppressed, this emotion can build and build inside and become something much worse. It can become out of control.
So actually it is important to remember that people who really care about you and really matter in your life, want you to share
your feelings whether they be happy, joyous or sadness. They don’t want you to suppress things, it is normal to feel these emotions, and it is being honest and true to yourself to share. And one of the key things to remember is that often when you are sharing your sadness, joy can come out of it. So if you know someone who you suspect is not having a good time, or if you yourself are feeling a bit fed up, make contact, be available and share.